Is There Anything I Can Do That Will Help Me Win Her Back?

When your girlfriend left, you were completely caught surprise by how strong you felt that it wasn't time for things to end between you.. You knew you loved her but you never expected to hurt like this. All you can think about is how to end the pain. The best solution you've come up with is to get her back for good. But, what do you need to do to make that happen?

Once you've decided you want to get your ex back it really sort of consumes your life. A lot of men in your shoes prefer the direct approach method. This involves a full frontal assault on her senses that can leave her feeling frightened rather than flattered. It almost always leaves the guy wondering what went wrong because it rarely has the desired outcome.

If you want to get your girlfriend back after a breakup, might I suggest a subtler approach? An approach like the one I teach that has been employed with a great rate of success by people around the world?

Oddly enough, the best thing you can do if you want to heal your relationship with your girlfriend is to start by healing yourself.

We all have things we could do to improve our lives and our circumstances. The more confident you are about yourself the more attractive you will be to your ex girlfriend. It's true. The better you feel about the way you look, your job, your financial situation, and even the 'causes' to which you commit your time, energy, and money – the better you will look to her.

What are the problem areas in your life? Where can you begin today, right now, making changes?

Appearance

This is the quickest fix for most people. While there are long-term solutions for fitness level and if you have major weight loss goals there are quick fixes you can make that will help increase your confidence. Things like the following are great improvements to begin with:

• Wardrobe updates
• Teeth whitening
• Hair style (see an actual stylist rather than the barber who's been doing your hair for a decade or longer)
• Get rid of gray hair, beard, etc.
• Shave
• Join the gym

Finances

Money is a HUGE problem in relationships. In fact, disagreements over money is the leading cause for divorce in the world today. If finances have been a struggle for the two of you it's time to consider a few options to manage your financial situation more wisely.

• Get a second job
• Go back to school for career advancement (this is a long-term goal but it shows that you are taking the problem seriously and taking action to solve it)
• Get debt counseling
• Downgrade your lifestyle
• Pay off credit cards
• Start a savings plan

These are all great things you can do right now that will help you win her back. But you're probably wondering what good they will be when she's not even on speaking terms with you, right?

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